LDR.
You miss him
so much
So
so much
Sometimes you feel
forgotten
sad
rejected
Alone
you are bound to
experience
but will never
be
any of those things.
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A wet dream come true.
Late night Tumblr browsing tends to draw my hands away from the keyboard and onto a different laptop. Yesterday evening I hit the jack off pot. A discovery about which every sexual being fantasizes. A nearly-naked Polaroid of my college crush, Spruce Davis.
I considered emailing the blogger to ask if he is the original photographer. If he tasted that treat labeled “Yummerz,” himself or simply re-posted it from another site without attribution. He appears to live in France, where I know Spruce currently resides. And he looks equally as emaciated chic and ennui inclined. I suppose I could inquire anonymously, but I think I have my answer.
Prior to graduation, I would have been très jealous of the artiste behind the lens. Whomever it may be, they have captured in an instant what I spent three years hoping to develop. What I began to long for before I even truly acknowledged that my loins burned hot for boiz.
“Tiffany Michaels?” My Multimedia and Popular Culture professor called out the first day of my sophomore year.
“Here!” An enthusiastic hand shot up.
“Adam Drecker?”
“Here.” He mumbled.
“Spruce Davis?”
Spruce…I began to scribble rapidly in the upper right hand corner of my notebook…Davis.
“Spruce Davis?”
“Oh!” he giggled. “Here! Sorry!“
He was whispering to his neighbor, but my attention was rapt. I was not going to miss an opportunity to put a name to this striking face. A name I subsequently typed into the Facebook search field – on a routine basis for the next year and a half. My spirits fell and my cock deflated the moment I discovered he had tightened his privacy settings. It wasn’t long, though, until both sprang back, raging harder and more hopeful than ever before.
After a semester abroad, my friend Chelsea returned to Minneapolis the autumn of our senior year. While she brought no trinkets in her suitcase, she had a better souvenir programmed into her phone. Her best friend over in Europe, Tess, quickly became an integral part of our stateside circle. A kindred spirit, we clicked immediately. The fact that she shared a lease with Spruce Davis was just icing on the Funfetti we’d often munchie out on.
“Feel free to invite your roommate,” I’d offer whenever we made plans.
“I’m trying,” she’d always return my smirk; but it wasn’t until after Martin Luther King Jr. Day that even the briefest of introductions were made. Time was ticking fast. And as our days on campus grew numbered, so did my chances at making a pass for a piece of long unrequited ass.
Or so it seemed.
“HEY!” A greeting rang out behind me, the morning after another Valentine’s Day spent numbing our hearts with sugar and our brains with a bowl.
I squinted through the snow reflected glare. “- Hello – OH!” I nearly bit the icy sidewalk. So surprised was I to bump into my obsession serendipitously, much less have him initiate conversation.
“Hold on a second.” He spoke into his phone before holding it against his chest and smiling at me. “How are you?”
“Great, actually,” a smile erupted between the bulk of my scarf and the fur of my trapper hat. “Yourself?”
“Oh, gosh, busy; always busy, you know? Hey, how great was that cake, huh? Thank Gawd for Tess, right? She cut me a piece before she left.” He took a sharp drag from the cigarette burning between his red, gloveless fingers.
“Ah – Yeah!” I tried to keep up. “Delicious alternative to sex.”
“I know. But, ugh.” He frowned exaggeratedly. “Alone as usual.”
“Really?” I grinned mischievously, a discordant response.
“But I had to work late anyways; so,” he waved his hand dismissively, “no big deal!”
I nodded slowly, searching for a way to prolong Cupid’s belated gift.
“OhmyGAWD!” He remembered his phone. “Hello?! Brittany?! Sorry!” He grimaced exaggeratedly.
“Go, go! Get back to your friend,” I took a step away. “Nice bumping into you though. You should really come over sometime.”
“Oh yeah! I hear you guys like to,” his voice dropped to a stage whisper, “smoke people up.”
“Yes,” I laughed, “we do enjoy spreading the love.”
“Then I’ll definitely be over,” he smiled, his eyebrows rising in sync.
I would have preferred my effervescence to be allure enough, but a bubbling bong worked for, now manic, me.
“He stopped me. While he was on the PHONE. I wouldn’t have even seen him!” I recanted my triumphant encounter for the 17th time. “I don’t want to get my hopes up; but it’s gotta mean something. Right?!”
“Hmm -” my now roommate began, mockingly contemplative. “I DON’T FUCKING KNOW.”
No one ever will. Not after what happened the night he finally did touch his lips to my – paraphernalia.
“We can drop you two off,” I offered as we stood outside of First Avenue, Minneapolis’ downtown danceteria.
“Mmm,” he nodded, exhaling a cloud of smoke as he glanced over to the curb where a sweat drenched Chelsea and Tess stood on the lookout for a cab.
“Or –” I struggled to thrust a hand down past the waistband of my jeans.
“- Ah –” His eyes flit frantically back over towards our respective roommates.
“You could come home with me.” I arched my eyebrows and brandished a condom – yanked from within the tight confines of my boxer briefs – between my thumb and forefinger.
Perplexingly, he did not accept. That night I passed out alone. My crush, however, was not put to bed. Alternately, it remained strong enough for me to stake my credibility and score him a job as a server and caterer at the restaurant where I worked. A desperate move, I now know. Yet, it was reason enough for him to accept my offer of a ride home after a bar closing shift. Not just that, but as we had to walk to my house first, he crossed the threshold once again.
I did lure him with bud. Sure. Okay. But with the two of us alone at my kitchen table, logic and self-respect were the last things on my mind.
“It’s-s-s so–oh–oh co–oh–oh-old,” he stuttered through chattering teeth.
“I know. I’m sorry. There’s no insulation. But we just cashed this pipe. So, it’s going to be a bit before I can drive.” I could barely contain my euphoria at such an airtight delay.
“Ug-g-gh.” he shivered. “Do you have any gloves?”
“Here, wear these,” I grabbed a mismatched pair of oven mitts off of the kitchen counter behind him. “Oh my Gawd! Stay there.”
Giggling gleefully, I retrieved a Polaroid camera from my room.
“Smile!”
I had done it. I had immortalized my most intense infatuation (then, to date) via my beloved medium. There were only 36 photos left in my stash and no more packs of the deceased film in any store’s stock. He was worth it, though. He was worth the $1.00+ a shot. My affection, however, of that he was not.
As that photo developed I realized I could finally allow my lust to fade. I’d already begun to accept that nothing tangible would transpire. We’d been Facebook friends for months. And now that he was forever part of my Polaroid collection, too, I could wean myself from a distance.
I would have preferred the Tumbled shot to my own. Still, I am in digital possession of them both. More importantly, I hold the knowledge that while I’m not necessarily better than him, he was never any good for me.
Plus, even though he looks better than ever, so do I. And – living in France, I imagine the hipster musk I knew him to emanate has only grown more pungent with expatriatism. Scruffy, oui. Stinky, non.
Mustache Car Pool.
An eco-friendly innuendo I was looking to test drive into sexual reality after captaining a team in The Burt Reynolds Dodgeball Tourney and Mustache Expo last Sunday. Alas, Silver Lake was the locale and thus hipsters were swarming. I’d have been glad to let those plaid-prone players pile in; but the trouble is, you can never tell whose team they’re on.
“Is he gay or straight?” Spending more time on the court and in the game in West Hollywood, I’ve grown used to not having to ask this question. Rare does it illicit a desired response, but my poppa di’n't raise no quitter.
Not surprisingly, I scored as often as Mustache Car Pool won – 0 – 4 – but I, we, still had fun.
Always play responsibly: no glove(s), no (group sex) love.
Second base shuffle.
“Kids,”
We all long for some “Love, Sex, & Magic” in our lives. We’re like “Tigers In The Fire,” cats in heat, when we first find it. The world is brighter than ever before. “Lights & Music” seem to accompany our every mundane move. Even the quartz in the sidewalk sparkles like “White Diamonds” as we bound along the same path down which we once trudged morosely towards work. We “Can’t Stop Feeling” so damn wonderful.
Until they “Bale Out.”
It’s never us, it’s always them; but still – for a while the only jig we can muster is the Thank-Gawd-That-Cheating-Ass-Hat-Didn’t-Give-Me-An-”STD Dance.” Yet, no matter how irreparably “Damaged” we may believe our psyches to be, try to “Stand Back” for a moment. Upon introspection we realize they were just a compliment, not the key to a fulfilling existence. We don’t need anyone else. We just want someone to want to be there for us and want us to be there for them at those times in this rich life of ours when we really do have to ask for help.
“Mony Mony!” They shout as soon as they see how our vivacity has not only endured, but intensified.
Too bad, fool. “Shut Up And Let Me Go.” It’s our turn to issue the dismissal.
What confidence this self-respect imbues. From “Dusk Till Dawn,” never again will anyone take away the knowledge that we got it going on. No one can make us feel “Bad” without our permission. They’re sure to “Hypnotize” some other unsuspecting peer, but we know just “Any Love” won’t do.
It might be years before we meet someone with whom we will share an intrinsic bond. We can try to force it, “COME ON! Please. Now, while “I’m In Miami Bitch,” but the Universe shan’t be coerced. Ain’t nothin’ we can do but enjoy a whole lot of “Lovin’, Touchin’, Squeezin’” in the meantime.
Let us commence by dancing ourselves to second base.
http://8tracks.com/mixes/111420/player_v2
So fresh, so kind of clean.
You know you’re a closet scrub when a business card from the bar you were at on Friday falls out of the back pocket of your jeans at work on Monday. WHAT?! I totally washed these pants…a couple weeks ago.
